A relative of mine had a severe problem with stealing and lieing. She would take money and jewelry, then make up outlandish stories to cover her tracks. After a while, the whole family would get on her case whenever there was an episode, and eventually she straightened out. But it took years, and some people still don't trust her. My feeling is she was trying to get attention, but I'm no shrink.

But there is no doubt you have to be proactive. Be tough on her, but at the same time remember she still needs the opportunity to grow up and live for herself. Parenting can be such a challenge at times, but you will prevail. I always told my kids if they ever break any adult laws, I will personally turn them in. So far, so good. Your mileage may vary.

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