If you have a lawyer friend, have him/her type something up on their letterhead and mail it to your ex via certified mail. That will send a definite message.

Last time I got a call, I told the person on the phone, after politely asking to speak to the ex, "I think I'm just going to get a restraining order." This voice of course said "who's that?," when I asked to speak to my ex, but I know it's her friends because they've said things and know things that only she knows. Anyways, the person didn't say anything and I just hung up the phone. I think the thread alone is enough to make them stop.

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David

Are you scared of the ***** or something? Go to her house and her friends house and tell them to quit calling your phone.

Everyone wants to bash lawyers or 'use a friend who is one for a favor' because they are too weak to handle their own problems. Jeesh.