OK, found it. Can you get to it without opening the trunk. Yes. Is it fun. NO. I reseated all 4 electrical connections on the PSE, and hit the remote, while still in the trunk, and it opened. Yeah, the neighbor looked at me funny when I climbed out.

For anyone looking, it is located behind the felt trim above and to the outside of the CD player. You'll see it encased in a block of foam. The foam is wedged into the fender. That's the mounting system.

The trunk open indicator is still glowing, and the alarm won't arm, but at least I can get into the trunk. the #5 (alarm\rear interior light\trunk light) still blows as soon as I put a fuse in it. That's enough for today. Enough for me at least. Thanks again Doc for the help.