I bought the Mineral oil from the guy who owns the 50 year old A/C shop. McParts places would have Mineral oil but I wanted the best possible for the job. It was 10 dollars for a quart, flush was $10 for more than a quart too.
The A/C guy says alot of people don't cycle the clutch by hand 10 times before starting the system, and that "hammers" the compressor (and runs it without oil) and it takes alot out of the life of the compressor. So put oil in it and turn it by hand when it's on the car, then bump a few times before putting refrigerant in to make sure the oil is circulated correctly.
Without a flush gun, the hard part would be flushing the evaporator, but I have a hose to connect to the evaporator, where I can put flush in and blow compressed air through. If it's too difficult without one, I'll go to a Mcparts and pick one up. The A/C guy said it wasn't really necessary. Otherwise a funnel and lots of compressed air works fine. I got the old "good stuff" (environment destroying) solvent for flushing that evaporates really fast so it'll help.
Little balls, little metal shards

. I have to flush the system really really good. If I screw up or can't flush something, or can't turn the compressor the A/C guy said he was happy to help. I'll take plenty of pictures of my progress this weekend.