Relationship Advice Needed!!!!!
 

Hello. This is C280'S son. I dont come on this site only my dad does but I need a second opinion. I came on here because I want another opinion on this girl. So last year I met this girl who was about 3 years older then me. She is now 23 and I am 20. We met in a College class and we talked a lot but never dated. The semester went by and the summer came and she was here in NY and I went to Florida for the summer but we still kept in contact. She found a guy and dated him during the summer.(I didn't care because I wasnt dating here) Meantime I found myself a girlfriend so now we both like each other but are dating other people. School starts again and she broke up with her boyfriend and I broke up with my girlfriend. We start talking a lot again. Around November time we had plans to spend lots of time togeather over our Holiday break. Out of the clear blue she blocks me on AIM and Facebook and would not answer my calls or E-Mails:mad::mad:. So I finally saw here one day and asked her what her problem was and shes goes to me. "I see a pattern with you. Everytime you are single you come running back to me like you want me and I dont trust you":confused::confused::confused:. Now I am completly lost here because we both did the same thing. We both dated other people at the same time?:confused::confused::confused:. So I ignore it and time goes on up untill today when her name came up in conversation. I figure its my Spring Break and hers also and its been since November since this fued so I figure since her name came up I will call her up to see how she is. I call no answer. I get a call back and its her asking who this was. I told her my name and she slams the phone down. She hung up faster then I could talk once I said my name. So here is the question. Say to hell with it and move on or keep waiting for her to come around? Lots of people tell me to wait it out. I think I should forget it.

She sounds like a nut... Move on.

She is a POS
 

She is not worth the price of admission.


She is a a *PURE* beeyotch that will make some man a DREADFUL little wife, one of these days; just be glad it's not gonna be YOU that is stuck with her.

Forget it.

You said it best "Say to hell with it and move on"

Lots of other girls out there

She is a nut. I will move on. My friends are saying she is worth it but im not seeing that at all.

I can't make relationships last longer than 3 months because of this mind game b.s.

I guess I'm not that accommodating.:o

Oh man I was in the same boat as you for the longest time. It eventually worked itself away thank God. But what this girl was putting me threw was nuts. She 23 and thats how she handles a guy. Im glad I walked away:D

Goodbye.

Forget her.

I Agree and I will. I like your signiture. Im going to do what it says "Eat, drink, and be fat and drunk:D"

The only thing now that worries me is that what if I run into her at school?

First of all, be honest with yourself. Know who you are and what is best for you (which is often not exactly what you want...). Once you have the internal balance, then treating her honestly and objectively is not difficult.

Solve the puzzle of yourself, everything else is a piece of cake.

From listening to the comments, it really sounds like this woman had some kind of bad relationship previous to meeting you and she has emotional baggage and issues. :o

There are a lot of women like this and the older you get, the more you will see. Steer clear. The beauty fades. Besides, most pretty women are so in love with themselves that they rarely give you what satisfies you on any level. :eek:

Find a moderately pretty one who isn't afraid to get her hands dirty, teach her the sex tricks you like best and vice-versa, and you will be a lot happier than you ever would be with the 23 year old.:D:D:D

Something else: tell your friends they can date her, see what happens. Watch the train wrecks from nearby and tell them all: "Told ya..":D:)

Damn that sounds familure, might be a Kansas thing? <----Ya, sure!:P
I Hate games and BS and thats hard to find in a girl. That and oh like non-smokers or kids aswell. Not against kids but seems they all have them now days:confused:

I hear you. My first semester in College I took this girl out a couple times and it took her to like the 5th date for her to have the guts to say "Oh Ya I have 2 kids":eek::eek::eek::eek:. I told her it ends here. I never spoke to her again.

i'll second that!

I AGREE 100%. It seems more prevalent here, but I'm sure its all over.

The High School I graduated from has the highest teen pregnacy rate in upstate NY. Now thats something to be proud of :D

Nothing to worry about. That's when you really learn something ... at school. ;)

Gotch ya. I just hope like hell I just dont see her to make life easy. I just dont understand how any of this even happined lol. Makes no sense. One day your talking about how shes going to spend the weekend with you and stuff and the next she is yelling at you for something and hanging up on you and dont even know what you did wrong. Ha Ha. Oh the joy of relationships:D I just laugh about it now.

Best advice: don't ask for chick advice on a car forum. But they are all right.

Why not?:confused:

Because a 617 is predictable, and they all were made the same within + - .0005" of each other. Relationships dont hold that much of a tolerance :P

because all these guys are at their computers avoiding their women.

????????????>>>>>>>>>LMASO!!..........:P

I was really opening this expecting to see something like "I decided to follow her home one night. I hid behind my car a block away and watched a young man open the door. As I was sitting there I noticed that I had too much fender gap and want to get rid of it. What is the best way to do this?"

But seriously, I would drop her like a sack of poop off of the Sears tower.

as you can see, OJ would have been much better off if he was more preoccupied with his vehicles than his relationships..... as we are on this board.



..that was really funny, colincoon.

Better if she knows all the tricks to set your nights on fire. :D:D

Not all but even if they have kids, so what? Bang them like a storm door in a hurricane and find one without.

Nope. He was found "Not Guilty". :D

She got some really stupid advice from some really insecure and immature people. "Everytime you are single you come running back to me like you want me and I dont trust you" is a sure sign of not being able to handle her own insecurities. Blocking you on her facebook etc. is just a way of blocking herself. She's not bad, she's not a nutcase (well maybe) but don't write her off as a person. You have to be OK with yourself that you have not changed. No matter what you'll be OK. Don't let this change you as a person.

Either way, this is way too much drama and baggage. Piece of tail is not worth that much. Much cheaper to hire a hooker than to go thru that. After all, when you are dating, it is like an interview where you put your best foot forward. If this is her best foot, it might be best to drop her. Of course, there might be the oddball that doesn't do well on an interview but does well when given a chance. This is what I would call a longshot. I don't like to bet on longshots.

:eek: and you think a bunch of grease monkeys are who to turn to :confused: .dump her and move on and good luck

I resent being called a grease monkey. We don't do grease anymore. It's all synthetic lubricants these days.

Grease is better. Especially with additives.

Propylene Glycol, PEG 400, Hydroxyethyl Cellulose, Tocopherol

Damn B that is some pretty sage advice.

She gave you her answer. Move on. When you see her on campus, say hi, and talk about the weather. Do not let her ruin your life, or day.
One day you will look back and smile at all of the games.
Find a good for you girl. Same values and priorities in life.

Smart kid.

Simple enough. She's dead to you. Don't say hi, don't nod your head, whatever.

hahahaha I knew you would not disappoint us with your response, on here, aklim.:D

If he were, he wouldn't have been driving his white Blazer in "limp-home" mode...:D

Several comments after living through a bunch of these type of people during the last oh so many years...

When you see her at school just move on. She will want you to be unhappy that she is ignoring you. Ignore her or you will be putting up with this nonsense for years. Being kind to your enemies is like pouring burning coals on their head.

An old saying: Factories are making dresses every day. Someone has to wear them, so there must be a lot of women out there you have not met.

Remember: The best revenge is living well.

When she gets into trouble, and everyone on earth has had it with her, she will come running back to you. At this point you will be tempted to get back with her. Don't. No one else would help her so she is coming to you.

An old showbiz saying: Never get involved with a woman that has more troubles then you do.

Lastly: She can never be in love with you; she is too much in love with herself.

Pooka

Sporty,

I don't mean to be blunt, but seriously, get an effing life. You are 20 years old. You don't really know if the sun is up or not emotionally, socially, and relationship wise. I don't mean to criticizes you but that light you see at the end of the tunnel is a bunch of us older guys looking back at you. We have mostly been there and done that and can tell you where a lot of the pot holes are on the road of life.

If that girl, at 23, is already playing those kinds of games with you imagine what she will be like at 33. You are too young and too inexperienced to get involved with someone like that. Take a look around your campus and see how many attractive, and more importantly intelligent, young ladies there are.

Play the field. Don't try to conquer and screw everything that is warm and vertical. Be nice, treat young ladies with respect and courtesy and look out for psychos.

I didn't get married until I was 35 and had my first child at 37. I am now 66 and don't regret any of it.

Run away kid!

I agree 100%. I am taking that advice for sure. I thought the same damn thing to myself. "If she is like this at 23. What is she like at 33 or 43"? I wont be around her to find out.:D:D

Who knows. She might grow up later. You cannot say. Just like a virgin might turn out to be a hell of a lay after the proper tutelage. However, if it were me, I let someone else be the sucker and you just reap the benefits.

Could you even imagine this women when she hits menopause:eek:

Eh that is true. Who knows? Who cares?:D. Shes got lots of changing to do for me to even look at her again.

Like I said, get a finished product instead of one that says "Assembly Required". :D

I'm a female (in case the avatar didin't give it away) and dude you need to back away from this one......Ahsta La Vista baby! Too many other nice honeys out there just waiting to hook up with a nice Benz guy such as yourself.