Relationship Advice Needed!!!!! - PeachParts Mercedes-Benz Forum

C280 Sport · #1 03-14-2009, 09:43 PM

Hello. This is C280'S son. I dont come on this site only my dad does but I need a second opinion. I came on here because I want another opinion on this girl. So last year I met this girl who was about 3 years older then me. She is now 23 and I am 20. We met in a College class and we talked a lot but never dated. The semester went by and the summer came and she was here in NY and I went to Florida for the summer but we still kept in contact. She found a guy and dated him during the summer.(I didn't care because I wasnt dating here) Meantime I found myself a girlfriend so now we both like each other but are dating other people. School starts again and she broke up with her boyfriend and I broke up with my girlfriend. We start talking a lot again. Around November time we had plans to spend lots of time togeather over our Holiday break. Out of the clear blue she blocks me on AIM and Facebook and would not answer my calls or E-Mails

. So I finally saw here one day and asked her what her problem was and shes goes to me. "I see a pattern with you. Everytime you are single you come running back to me like you want me and I dont trust you"

. Now I am completly lost here because we both did the same thing. We both dated other people at the same time?

. So I ignore it and time goes on up untill today when her name came up in conversation. I figure its my Spring Break and hers also and its been since November since this fued so I figure since her name came up I will call her up to see how she is. I call no answer. I get a call back and its her asking who this was. I told her my name and she slams the phone down. She hung up faster then I could talk once I said my name. So here is the question. Say to hell with it and move on or keep waiting for her to come around? Lots of people tell me to wait it out. I think I should forget it.

KarTek · #2 03-14-2009, 10:07 PM

She sounds like a nut... Move on.

Jim B. · #3 03-14-2009, 10:16 PM

She is not worth the price of admission.

She is a a *PURE* beeyotch that will make some man a DREADFUL little wife, one of these days; just be glad it's not gonna be YOU that is stuck with her.

Forget it.

LUVMBDiesels · #4 03-14-2009, 10:16 PM

You said it best "Say to hell with it and move on"

Lots of other girls out there

C280 Sport · #5 03-14-2009, 10:20 PM

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Originally Posted by KarTek

She sounds like a nut... Move on.

She is a nut. I will move on. My friends are saying she is worth it but im not seeing that at all.

TylerH860 · #6 03-14-2009, 10:26 PM

I can't make relationships last longer than 3 months because of this mind game b.s.

I guess I'm not that accommodating.

C280 Sport · #7 03-14-2009, 10:29 PM

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Originally Posted by TylerH860

I can't make relationships last longer than 3 months because of this mind game b.s.

I guess I'm not that accommodating.

Oh man I was in the same boat as you for the longest time. It eventually worked itself away thank God. But what this girl was putting me threw was nuts. She 23 and thats how she handles a guy. Im glad I walked away

Botnst · #8 03-14-2009, 10:47 PM

Goodbye.

Skippy · #9 03-14-2009, 10:50 PM

Forget her.

C280 Sport · #10 03-14-2009, 10:56 PM

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Originally Posted by Skippy

Forget her.

I Agree and I will. I like your signiture. Im going to do what it says "Eat, drink, and be fat and drunk

"

C280 Sport · #11 03-14-2009, 11:08 PM

The only thing now that worries me is that what if I run into her at school?

Botnst · #12 03-14-2009, 11:12 PM

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Originally Posted by C280 Sport

The only thing now that worries me is that what if I run into her at school?

First of all, be honest with yourself. Know who you are and what is best for you (which is often not exactly what you want...). Once you have the internal balance, then treating her honestly and objectively is not difficult.

Solve the puzzle of yourself, everything else is a piece of cake.

strelnik · #13 03-14-2009, 11:13 PM

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Originally Posted by C280 Sport

She is a nut. I will move on. My friends are saying she is worth it but im not seeing that at all.

From listening to the comments, it really sounds like this woman had some kind of bad relationship previous to meeting you and she has emotional baggage and issues.

There are a lot of women like this and the older you get, the more you will see. Steer clear. The beauty fades. Besides, most pretty women are so in love with themselves that they rarely give you what satisfies you on any level.

Find a moderately pretty one who isn't afraid to get her hands dirty, teach her the sex tricks you like best and vice-versa, and you will be a lot happier than you ever would be with the 23 year old.

Something else: tell your friends they can date her, see what happens. Watch the train wrecks from nearby and tell them all: "Told ya.."

mytmousemalibu · #14 03-14-2009, 11:14 PM

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Originally Posted by TylerH860

I can't make relationships last longer than 3 months because of this mind game b.s.

I guess I'm not that accommodating.

Damn that sounds familure, might be a Kansas thing? <----Ya, sure!

I Hate games and BS and thats hard to find in a girl. That and oh like non-smokers or kids aswell. Not against kids but seems they all have them now days

C280 Sport · #15 03-14-2009, 11:19 PM

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Originally Posted by mytmousemalibu

Not against kids but seems they all have them now days

I hear you. My first semester in College I took this girl out a couple times and it took her to like the 5th date for her to have the guts to say "Oh Ya I have 2 kids"

. I told her it ends here. I never spoke to her again.

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