First of all, be honest with yourself. Know who you are and what is best for you (which is often not exactly what you want...). Once you have the internal balance, then treating her honestly and objectively is not difficult.

Solve the puzzle of yourself, everything else is a piece of cake.

Damn B that is some pretty sage advice.

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