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They HAD to buy a house in a new neighborhood where many of our executives also built in. A very nice house indeed... 7000 sq ft, 5 bed, 7 bath, yada yada. When I was invited for dinner one night, I noticed they had almost no furniture or decor in the house except the kitchen, dining room, and living room. They had a huge great room probably 30'x50' completely empty except for an entertainment center and TV. I later learned they RENT furniture as needed for entertainment and what not. Very bizarre to me. Having that address/neighborhood name meant so much to them, they way overspent and clearly couldn't enjoy a house like that to full potential. We were talking cars one day and the wife wanted a new Escalade when the latest body style first came out (2015?) They didn't qualify for a lease for whatever reason, I'm guessing credit. She still got her Escalade, but on an 84 month note and zero down. To me, that's crazy. Impossible to avoid being upside down on those terms. Fast forward a few years. The company's top brass changed and so did their business model. Many jobs were outsourced and many mid-levels were moved from our corporate headquarters to one of the hubs. This couple was given the choice to move to a hub or get RIF'd with a severance package (reduction in-force). Around the same time, a car manufacturing plant was shuddered and a major healthcare entity moved. That left the town with really nothing except a whole bunch of college kids. Of course this led to real estate taking a huge tumble. They chose to take a gamble, list their house for sale, and move. Zero savings and not enough time to have any equity in the house. It was on the market for about 2 years and was price cut several times. Still never sold. I just recently saw it listed as a bank foreclosure. All that said, I agree. Credit has been way to easy to obtain, especially for those already grossly overextended with checkered payment histories. For a mortgage, the traditional 20% down and 36% max total debt to income ratios are so relaxed today. And until I was talking cars with my friend with the Escalade, I didn't realize an 84 month car loan was even a thing. I realize this is a rather extreme situation, but I am seeing this more and more. This couple has since separated and I have to think their financial nightmare was a driving force into their troubles. Using credit definitely has its place, but needs to be used wisely and with caution. Just because a mortgage broker or banker SAYS you can spend X, it doesn't necessarily mean you should. Same applies to the F&I guy at the car dealer. They want you to spend as much as you possibly can so he can fatten up his wallet. Yes I'm old fashioned with my thinking, but 1/3 of one's salary for taxes, 1/4-1/3 to live, and 1/4-1/3 to save/invest still works with a little left to play with. At my age, I just can't imagine having to pack up and move across the country with no real plan and zero money to get established in a new location. Perhaps they've learned having such-and-such an address and driving a heavily depreciating turd isn't that important after all.
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I guess then that living within your means is out of the question ?
![]() I can't feel sorry for stupid people like that ~ I could afford a reasonable house payment yet couldn't get a loan for years and years even though I had excellent credit . They'd offer me an adjustable loan, that's stupid, they never go down only UP. I'm glad I didn't have to buy a trailer, I lived in trailers in the 1960's and don't ever want to do that again unless I absolutely have to .
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