I give up. What a case of total frustration. I pulled out what I installed and returned the system to stock. Ahhhh the sweet sound of silence

Finally that damn alarm horn was not sounding off. The differences in instructions, subtle differences in remote entry components and possibly differences in wiring harnesses in different model years led to my demise. Chalk one up for a learning experience.
I should have gone with a local installer who offered to do the system for $160 total. Buy hindsight is always 20/20

The cructhfield items were around a $100 and the $60 extra would have been well spent by paying a pro.
I am not saying that the instructions or advice posted was misleading or bad...in contrary I really do appreciate the info that was documented and posted. Thank you to all. To some extent I enjoyed attempting to install the system but it just seemed to be something beyond me. I have never been comfortable with electrical based work and I knew this going into the project. Give me something mechanical and I am all over it
I am returning the items to Crutchfield this afternoon