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Originally Posted by mgburg
Your wife's and your house...you two talk first, THEN talk to the kids, together...
Make sure you and the wife agree as to what the "sleeping arrangements" are before you lower the boom on behalf of your wife and you.
Also, find out EXACTLY what she saw, said and did...otherwise, you look like the "odd man out" of the scenario...
The son should have know already what's acceptable under your roof...now might be a little too late to delineate "proper" non-married guest sleeping arrangement etiquette...since you've already mentioned that this type of behavior has already been going on with no objections on your part, you may have already determined how this is going to end up already.
Then, what is it about this scenario that suddenly has your paternal instincts all on high-alert?
Maybe that's what you and the wifey need to discuss before you chat w/the kids...
Either way, you better be settled with this in your mind before you approach your son...
Good luck...
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Reverse role play, dad!.
What if it was your
daughter? Would you want her sleeping with a guy in his house with his parents not caring? I wouldn't. But I used to jitterbug to Oh Boy!
Only once do I recall one of my daughters who was a senoir in college at the time, bringing a guy to my house to sleep over. They stayed in separate rooms. No questions or comments before or after on either side.
Guess maybe it's how they were raised.