I've recently had OM617 head problems too - mine was a broken valve guide:-
http://www.peachparts.com/shopforum/showthread.php?t=276144
I also asked about seat grinding and got several responses here:-
http://www.peachparts.com/shopforum/showthread.php?t=283999
I hope these threads help.
A summary of the advice:-
If you don't have access to machining equipment - farm it out to those that do. A pity really as I was itching to get some new toys...
EDIT:-
I forgot to say - before you decide to dismantle your head it might be worth your while doing a leak down test - or at the very least a compression test. It might throw some light on your problem