Originally Posted by cmbdiesel

Helping people who need it is it's own reward.

Expecting gratitude afterwards is a fools errand.

Feel good about the fact that you did the right thing by somebody and let it go.

Eventually they may move beyond the defensive "I was OK" mode and you could get the thanks you deserve, or not, but you will always know the truth of the matter.

I'm sure you will continue to help those in your circle that need it, regardless of previous experience...