We cut waaay back on the whole gift thing this year. With the family growing thru kids getting married and all, it just got too hard to keep up. So we all agreed to just focus on the immediate members of the family, and then to draw names so we only have to worry about one family member's gifts. mMde it much more relaxed and enjoyable. We just focused more on visiting, and remembering what the day is really about.
Long story short, yes. I got what I wanted