Stop being his mother. Tell him to pay up or he's out. Put a lein on his car, keep the toys or make him sell them on e-bay. Play hardball with him. Business is business. He owes you money. That he cannot keep a job for an extended period of time is a signal.

My ex-wife's first son, by her previous marriage, is a mooch. When we drew up the papers, I added a clause that he was not to live in the house. This was to protect her and also our kids from his less than sterling influence.

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Regards

Warren

Currently 1965 220Sb, 2002 FORD Crown Vic Police Interceptor

Had 1965 220SEb, 1967 230S, 280SE 4.5, 300SE (W126), 420SEL

ENTER > = (HP RPN)

Not part of the in-crowd since 1952.