I'm thinking this is the best way find a mature women my age that is not just into the party and get high stage. Would I be wrong in assuming that a evening with dinner and desert at a vineyard will be more adapt to holding the intrest of a mature girl my age (23) then that of a wild party girl that can't even pay her phone bill on time. (long story there). I'm regreating my words as I write this, there was this one women that I met last fall who was admitidly kind of a snob but she had her stuff togeather and knew what she wanted and she was extreamly inteligent. I wish I would have gotten to know her more. Maybe it's not too late.