Relationship Advice Needed!!!!! - PeachParts Mercedes-Benz Forum

C280 Sport · #1 03-16-2009, 10:51 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by DslBnz

I haven't seen the whole thread but...

I once posted on here about a similar ordeal.

Think of it this way:
You're concerned about her. She isn't acting normal and you just want to help however possible. But you understand her feelings, and you sympathize with her. Let her know you're there if she needs you. Be a courteous gentleman.

I'm not you, it's your call.

I tried that. She hung up the phone on me. Wouldnt even let me talk.

DslBnz · #2 03-16-2009, 11:04 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by C280 Sport

I tried that. She hung up the phone on me. Wouldnt even let me talk.

OK. In this case, you have two options.

1. move on to someone else and forget her entirely.

2. wait a little while (maybe a week) and try calling her again (preferred).

I think the key is patience. I know you're probably feeling anxious about this. Things need to cool off for a bit. You need to get busy with something else (recreational activities) It's gotta be one of the hardest things to EVER do. It sux, big time. In the meantime, we're here for ya man at MShop!

aklim · #3 03-17-2009, 12:00 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by DslBnz

OK. In this case, you have two options.

1. move on to someone else and forget her entirely.

2. wait a little while (maybe a week) and try calling her again (preferred).

I think the key is patience. I know you're probably feeling anxious about this. Things need to cool off for a bit. You need to get busy with something else (recreational activities) It's gotta be one of the hardest things to EVER do. It sux, big time. In the meantime, we're here for ya man at MShop!

Take door #1. Forget waiting an calling her. Not worth it. Even if he does get to talk to her and straighten it out, she is damaged goods.

engatwork · #4 03-17-2009, 06:10 AM

As already stated - run away. She will only get worse as time goes on and for the most part you won't even know what you did to upset her. Trust me, I've been there done that.

G-Benz · #5 03-17-2009, 09:55 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by engatwork

As already stated - run away. She will only get worse as time goes on and for the most part you won't even know what you did to upset her. Trust me, I've been there done that.

Sage advice from engatwork!!! Seriously!!! The man has experience in this arena like no one else!!!

I would add that during my single (20-ish) days, I wouldn't bother with women under 27, actually preferring those 30 or older. They are far more stable, confident, upfront about desires, and aren't into playing silly mind games...