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JB3 · #46 01-25-2019, 07:34 PM

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Originally Posted by vwnate1

No, you're ignoring the fact that you came in unbidden only to directly attach a man (a better man than you'll ever be BTW) who's dealing with life's switches and because you're an emotional child who couldn't help, you decided to show your insecurity and cowardice .

Better to remain silent and be thought a fool than to open your mouth and remove all doubt .

You can keep on showing the world just how afraid you are, endlessly..........

YOU jumped in and started this, now like a typical snowflake, you're crying when the Adults call you on your boorish behaviour .

LOL
The man isnt getting any useful help from you, or anyone who feeds these troll threads for that matter.

You are quite a pissy one my friend. Didnt like a mild comment because it wasnt sugarcoated to your satisfaction, started whining and havent stopped.

Now you are trying to be as insulting as possible and its hilarious.

Ill spell it out for you, this man who has been dealt some blows i am perfectly aware of, isnt on any positive path with these habitual self harm and stupid decision threads. They are a cry for help he needs in PERSON. You can remain the pompous self righteous a$$ you are so proud to be, but dont tell other people how they are allowed to talk to him.

For all your sanctimonious preaching i doubt you have a plane ticket to go help him. Sometimes its the kick in the pants that helps more than anything else. He can go get the help he needs, or he can keep listening to your sickening drivel. His choice. Whats more effective?

Do you want some jacka$$ out in CA and a kindly sort in IL feeling sorry for you, or do you make the move to face the problem, address the medical issues, get the conseling, and remain a presence of strength for your family?

vwnate1 · #47 01-25-2019, 09:41 PM

As usual ;

_you_ are the only pissy, whining, crying baby here, can't deal with your sad reality, it must really suck to be you, right ? .

t walgamuth · #48 01-25-2019, 10:30 PM

Dear JB3. A rather nasty troll has stolen your identity and is hanging out here!

JB3 · #49 01-25-2019, 10:59 PM

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Originally Posted by vwnate1

As usual ;

_you_ are the only pissy, whining, crying baby here, can't deal with your sad reality, it must really suck to be you, right ? .

Not really, but thanks for asking

JB3 · #50 01-25-2019, 11:02 PM

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Originally Posted by t walgamuth

Dear JB3. A rather nasty troll has stolen your identity and is hanging out here!

Nonsense. Sick of the OPs Self destructive threads and the pity party they are designed to bring about.

t walgamuth · #51 01-25-2019, 11:39 PM

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Originally Posted by JB3

Nonsense. Sick of the OPs Self destructive threads and the pity party they are designed to bring about.

I suppose that is possible but I will continue to assume it is straight up and respond accordingly.

Diseasel300 · #52 01-25-2019, 11:44 PM

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Originally Posted by JB3

Ill spell it out for you, this man who has been dealt some blows i am perfectly aware of, isnt on any positive path with these habitual self harm and stupid decision threads. They are a cry for help he needs in PERSON. You can remain the pompous self righteous a$$ you are so proud to be, but dont tell other people how they are allowed to talk to him.

For all your sanctimonious preaching i doubt you have a plane ticket to go help him. Sometimes its the kick in the pants that helps more than anything else. He can go get the help he needs, or he can keep listening to your sickening drivel. His choice. Whats more effective?

Do you want some jacka$$ out in CA and a kindly sort in IL feeling sorry for you, or do you make the move to face the problem, address the medical issues, get the conseling, and remain a presence of strength for your family?

Thank God someone said what needs saying! EVERYONE is dealt blows in their life, some more than others. The strong survive because they pick themselves up, dust themselves off, and move on with life. Sure they can use friends, loved ones, and even anonymous strangers to get through rough patches, but they pull through.

Voicing empty words and false sympathy never helped anyone solve anything, and bringing tea and cake to a pity party really isn't the way to help someone in need. For those who are so concerned, have you shared your phone numbers with the OP, or called to follow up with him to make sure he's alright? Sent a personal email at least? If not, please stop droning on about how much you care. Actions speak louder than words.

t walgamuth · #53 01-26-2019, 10:12 AM

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Originally Posted by Diseasel300

Thank God someone said what needs saying! EVERYONE is dealt blows in their life, some more than others. The strong survive because they pick themselves up, dust themselves off, and move on with life. Sure they can use friends, loved ones, and even anonymous strangers to get through rough patches, but they pull through.

Voicing empty words and false sympathy never helped anyone solve anything, and bringing tea and cake to a pity party really isn't the way to help someone in need. For those who are so concerned, have you shared your phone numbers with the OP, or called to follow up with him to make sure he's alright? Sent a personal email at least? If not, please stop droning on about how much you care. Actions speak louder than words.

Another troll.

People come onto these forums and ask questions all the time. I hope we offer the best answers we can. Opinions often can help. I have come here and asked day to day life questions many times. Sometimes I get good answers and other times not.

Your thoughts that Oldsinner is just looking to create a stir seems baseless to me. He looks like a guy who like all of us just trying to get from day today.

It's not your job to say who is real and who is faking it.

Diseasel300 · #54 01-26-2019, 11:22 AM

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Originally Posted by t walgamuth

Another troll.

Yeah.....agreeing with someone on a forum for calling out a couple of people with fake "empathy" is a now "trolling". Got it.

So let me ask....what have you done to help the OP? Still those empty words? Since you claim to KNOW him, you should at least have his contact info right? Or is he merely someone you know OF and pretend to care about their situation?

I'll make my position very clear on this issue since people have reading comprehension skills these days. I don't know the OP, I don't know his history other than the multiple pity parties he's thrown for himself on this forum, and I don't know anything about his current situation nor do I pretend to. I don't usually get involved in threads like this, but watching a couple of empty worders gang up on someone who simply stated the truth is ridiculous.

Unless I actually know someone (met them in person, known them a very long time, talk on the phone regularly, live nearby, etc) I don't get involved in their personal life.

JB3 · #55 01-27-2019, 05:54 AM

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Originally Posted by t walgamuth

Another troll.

People come onto these forums and ask questions all the time. I hope we offer the best answers we can. Opinions often can help. I have come here and asked day to day life questions many times. Sometimes I get good answers and other times not.

Your thoughts that Oldsinner is just looking to create a stir seems baseless to me. He looks like a guy who like all of us just trying to get from day today.

It's not your job to say who is real and who is faking it.

Correct, its not ones job to say who or who isnt faking it, just like it isnt your job to swoop in and censor any post that isnt phrased in a way you like. This is a public forum, not a private three way discussion between the OP, you and vwnate. This entire argument is because the pair of you are attempting to censor any other response that doesnt fit with what YOU think should be said. On a public forum.

We disagree on the OP. I have compassion for the mans terrible loss, but he has developed a habit of starting these inflammatory threads in his grief, which fit a pattern. "Im going to do or say this or that thing which might be harmful and oh, i dont care about my life". This is designed to generate a certain response, and its an unhealthy habit in the long run. It perpetuates and echos the grief, it doesnt help otherwise.

He needs to find a reason to care about his life if he really doesnt, and getting a kiss blown at him from 3000 miles away in text is only helpful to the kiss blower, who feels a glowing sense of virtue for their good deed. These responders are also famous for then telling others they were raised better. Sound familar?

In this thread hes posted a potentially seriously stupid medical decision. I am guilty of pointing it out just like that, only to be descended upon by the white knights of momentary internet empathy for not wrapping my statement up in a sugarcoated bow like they want.

Guess what, im also attempting to help the man as well. If he doesnt care about his own life who will? hes got to find a reason to do so, and its going to take the help of those close to him, or people who are actually willing to help a stranger in person, not internet virtue signallers.

He needs to join group and private grief counseling groups, he needs to make an effort to see his doctors and listen to them. He needs to find a reason to be there for the other people in his life instead of wallowing in self pity, because that doesnt help him. Perfect strangers will tell you they care, but they really dont. This is the reality of something that needs to be accepted when dealing with grief.

Frankly you and vwnate might take a moment and reflect on just how arrogant it is to tell people how they should interact with others, on how paper thin and see through your sanctimonious web compassion relly is, and how effective feeling good about yourself is in helping someone else with their grief.

oldsinner111 · #56 01-27-2019, 06:36 AM

Hey guys getting stronger,stayed on bp meds.Gold helps with my nerves,maybe electric thing.
Wife is getting worse though,these Doc's here can't fiqure out her pain,now she stays nauseated.Get her another scan next month to check her kidney tumor.
Been cold here planning on cleaning throttle body today,and checking under computer coffin.722.6xx trans are bad for atf wicking up wire harness.My solution drill hole in coffin box to drain.Holidays,and jan. 21 st always bad for me,when my daughter died.Once its over I switch to high gear.

vwnate1 · #57 01-27-2019, 12:21 PM

As usual......

You cannot change the direction to someone else when _YOU_ came in and insulted someone, now you're lying and claiming to care, bull**** .

Yes, I know then man in question, YOU LIED and said you know his situation when you clearly don't and don't care .

He isn't asking for help, he's dealing with it and is just sharing what he thinks as life goes along .

As I said, : it clearly sucks to be you, scared of life .

No one but _you_ said anything about being raised better, I just have basic manners that you clearly lack .

You cannot deflect this from you and your uncalled for personal attacks .

I don't see any pity party , only you do because you're a snowflake ~ remember : that name _you_ like to use along with other uncalled for insults, why ? because you're afraid of God alone knows what .

Act like an adult and you'll be treated like one .

t walgamuth · #58 01-27-2019, 12:41 PM

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Originally Posted by vwnate1

As usual......

You cannot change the direction to someone else when _YOU_ came in and insulted someone, now you're lying and claiming to care, bull**** .

Yes, I know then man in question, YOU LIED and said you know his situation when you clearly don't and don't care .

He isn't asking for help, he's dealing with it and is just sharing what he thinks as life goes along .

As I said, : it clearly sucks to be you, scared of life .

No one but _you_ said anything about being raised better, I just have basic manners that you clearly lack .

You cannot deflect this from you and your uncalled for personal attacks .

I don't see any pity party , only you do because you're a snowflake ~ remember : that name _you_ like to use along with other uncalled for insults, why ? because you're afraid of God alone knows what .

Act like an adult and you'll be treated like one .

This is directed to JB3.

t walgamuth · #59 01-27-2019, 12:43 PM

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Originally Posted by oldsinner111

Hey guys getting stronger,stayed on bp meds.Gold helps with my nerves,maybe electric thing.
Wife is getting worse though,these Doc's here can't fiqure out her pain,now she stays nauseated.Get her another scan next month to check her kidney tumor.
Been cold here planning on cleaning throttle body today,and checking under computer coffin.722.6xx trans are bad for atf wicking up wire harness.My solution drill hole in coffin box to drain.Holidays,and jan. 21 st always bad for me,when my daughter died.Once its over I switch to high gear.

Glad to hear you are feeling better. Sorry you have to remember the sad anniversary. Good you are continuing your meds. Still if suffering the sweats you should get to a doc!

rocky raccoon · #60 01-27-2019, 01:30 PM

Seems the oldsinner has been forgotten in the juvenile Insult Festival.

Old son, just do for yourself whatever you think is right. At your (probable) age you have earned the right to do so. None of us here have the ability or rights to tell you differently.