sometimes, when I wake up in the morning....I am still tired!
How can that be?
Keep those diesels humming:D
spo out:cool:

Trust, honor, love. These are words that she and I have lived by for nearly 30 years. I'll live with them rather than worry without cause.

I never worry about what happened prior to me. Don't ask, don't tell.

It wouldn't do any good for either of us to know anyway.

Obviously, you don't marry a chick who swallows penis for a living(unless that's your thing) but you qualify and learn about the other person and move on.

Personally, it's none of my business.

If I had a doubts to her fidelity and reputation, I'd never have married her.

.02

For me personally its a tough call. I can understand where plant and botnest are coming from with the "dont ask dont tell question". I can see where the past should stay in the past.

At the same time though, i understand where virginia dude is coming from, people dont change. At least not overnight. once trust is compromised, there isnt much left in a relationship.

I knew of a few wifes, who has other guys "cum over", no pun intended, while the husband was at work. Later the husband found out that his wife was having an affair(s). I couldnt image the pain the husbands felt.

Just like the neurosurgon wife example with the nurse scrub, kind of...

Maybe for all us single guys out there, we have a subconscious trust issue?