Well I alread ordered the part from Napa. I wonder if it requires welding too. It came with a bunch of nuts and such. I was expecting something more like what you linked above but with securing bolt similar to what is used for the tie rod end links (minus threads).

The kit will be here Friday. Also I have no way of welding, but maybe I will look into getting this kit since I know 100% for sure it works and see if I can get a welder to stop by.

What a headache and I have only had the car two days!

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1991 560 SEL / 185k miles
1992 750il / 17k miles - project car