Only if Jen had a "sword" of her own to cross with her husband.

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.... as he types with one hand.

Jen,
I went to the movies a few weeks ago with a female friend of my wife. The three of us were supposed to go, but my wife was ill.
We teased each other about what to say if we ran into an acquaintance.
No affair.

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Good point, MS. I've had drinks with subordinates (various sexes and persuasions) before in motels where we've stayed while conducting fieldwork. That's the perfect setting for infidelity, yet it was always absolutely innocent and always will be.

B

. . . .and eyes rolled back, spittle cascading from his lips . . . .

I've been criticized by certain people for thinking about sex all the time. My answer to that is, I don't think about it as long as I'm getting enough of it.

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1998 Lincoln Continental - Sold
Max 1984 300TD 285,000 miles - Sold
The Dee8gonator 1987 560SEC 196,000 miles - Sold
Orgasmatron - 2006 CLS500 90,000 miles
2002 C320 Wagon 122,000 miles
2016 AMG GTS 12,000 miles

Please define the word "enough".

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05 Polaris Sportsman 800 EFI
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03 SeaDoo GTX SC Red
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Are you your right self Bot? I'd expect you to have laid out in a grid the expected values for her.

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I'm working on it. Haven't found that level yet. I'll get back to you when I do. I'm researching it . . . .

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1998 Lincoln Continental - Sold
Max 1984 300TD 285,000 miles - Sold
The Dee8gonator 1987 560SEC 196,000 miles - Sold
Orgasmatron - 2006 CLS500 90,000 miles
2002 C320 Wagon 122,000 miles
2016 AMG GTS 12,000 miles

I would disagree with Bot. After all, her husband did say to forget about it. If it gets ugly, there would be an eternal "I told you so". Best case scenario, it puts friction between Jen and her husband.

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05 Polaris Sportsman 800 EFI
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03 SeaDoo GTX SC Red
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04 Tailgator 21 ft Toy Hauler
11 Harley Davidson 883 SuperLow

My research went up to 13 times in 17 hrs but the motel wanted us to leave by checkout time.

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05 Polaris Sportsman 800 EFI
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03 SeaDoo GTX SC Red
03 SeaDoo GTX SC Yellow
04 Tailgator 21 ft Toy Hauler
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I always figure the best place for my nose is NOT in someone else's bidness.

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1998 Lincoln Continental - Sold
Max 1984 300TD 285,000 miles - Sold
The Dee8gonator 1987 560SEC 196,000 miles - Sold
Orgasmatron - 2006 CLS500 90,000 miles
2002 C320 Wagon 122,000 miles
2016 AMG GTS 12,000 miles

I have had my nose pretty close to the furry clam and I felt that was my business.

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99 E300 Turbodiesel
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06 Polaris Sportsman 500 EFI
03 SeaDoo GTX SC Red
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04 Tailgator 21 ft Toy Hauler
11 Harley Davidson 883 SuperLow

Oh, THAT kind of business is fine for me to have my nose in. I meant other people's business that I had nothing to do with. The bearded clam is a particular interest of mine and I try to study it closely at every possible opportunity.

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" We have nothing to fear but the main stream media itself . . . ."- Adapted from Franklin D Roosevelt for the 21st century

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1998 Lincoln Continental - Sold
Max 1984 300TD 285,000 miles - Sold
The Dee8gonator 1987 560SEC 196,000 miles - Sold
Orgasmatron - 2006 CLS500 90,000 miles
2002 C320 Wagon 122,000 miles
2016 AMG GTS 12,000 miles

"...you'll know it when you see it."

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M. G. Burg
'10 - Dakota SXT - Daily Ride / ≈ 172.5K
.'76 - 450SLC - 107.024.12 / < .89.20 K
..'77 - 280E - 123.033.12 / > 128.20 K
...'67 - El Camino - 283ci / > 207.00 K
....'75 - Yamaha - 650XS / < 21.00 K
.....'87 - G20 Sportvan / > 206.00 K
......'85 - 4WINNS 160 I.O. / 140hp
.......'74 - Honda CT70 / Real 125
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“I didn’t really say everything I said.”
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Jen already did discuss it w/the hubby.
He gave her his opinion.
She's still having doubts his opinion is valid.
She went out and gave the gal a chick-hug...setting up a question in the other gal's mind. (That's almost a chick-signal for "Watch your back, sister!")
Now, how does she "gracefully" get out of this?

I'd rather play with a running lawn-mower.

MO is that she should bow out of this situation - FAST!

If there's a social setting that they have to attend...she's home sick w/the plague or is terminally ill...she needs to be away from those three players when they're together.

As for the hubby? He might as well take his working relationship with the "cheater" (assuming that that is what he's doing) and hoping that the idiot ("cheater") isn't his boss or future-supervisor, shelve their time together until this episode passes...he's the other "innocent" in this scenario and she dragged him into it by the "chick-hug" thing.

Sometimes the best advice/condolences is none at all. But now, that line has been crossed...better to get away from the situation before more victims get hit by "friendly fire" here...because UGLY is just over the horizon and nobody knows how big it is or for how long it will be around...

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M. G. Burg
'10 - Dakota SXT - Daily Ride / ≈ 172.5K
.'76 - 450SLC - 107.024.12 / < .89.20 K
..'77 - 280E - 123.033.12 / > 128.20 K
...'67 - El Camino - 283ci / > 207.00 K
....'75 - Yamaha - 650XS / < 21.00 K
.....'87 - G20 Sportvan / > 206.00 K
......'85 - 4WINNS 160 I.O. / 140hp
.......'74 - Honda CT70 / Real 125
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“I didn’t really say everything I said.”
. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . ~ Yogi Berra ~