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Mistress · #46 03-23-2009, 02:15 PM

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Originally Posted by Botnst

Your house, your rules.

X2. I'm 50 (ish) and feel the same way....When my boyfriend and I went to visit his mom we slept in spearate rooms (we are not married).

Medmech · #47 03-23-2009, 02:24 PM

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Originally Posted by pawoSD

The whole idea of this kind of stuff somehow being "ok" now vs. in the past due to "modern society" is exactly what is wrong with modern society. Anything goes, morals, ethics, and more controlled behavior seem to be disappearing quickly. And so goes the further deterioration of society.

I'm going to take a wild stab and guess that you have a daughter. I do and one half of me says its OK and the daddy side of me says NFW...ever...married or not. I'm going to have a tough time dealing with the teen dating issue.

aklim · #48 03-23-2009, 02:32 PM

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Originally Posted by Mistress

X2. I'm 50 (ish) and feel the same way....When my boyfriend and I went to visit his mom we slept in spearate rooms (we are not married).

But just because you slept in separate rooms didn't mean you two didn't sneak around for a midnight "snack", did it?

Mistress · #49 03-23-2009, 02:36 PM

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Originally Posted by aklim

But just because you slept in separate rooms didn't mean you two didn't sneak around for a midnight "snack", did it?

Midnight, what's that?

aklim · #50 03-23-2009, 02:38 PM

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Originally Posted by Mistress

Midnight, what's that?

About the time when the parents are in deep sleep.

Dee8go · #51 03-23-2009, 02:43 PM

That's when the "Y" is open for dining . . . .

Dee8go · #52 03-23-2009, 02:44 PM

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Originally Posted by Mistress

X2. I'm 50 (ish) and feel the same way....When my boyfriend and I went to visit his mom we slept in spearate rooms (we are not married).

No doubt, he was mightily pissed off about that.

sfloriII · #53 03-23-2009, 02:47 PM

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Originally Posted by C280 Sport

...They both told my wife nothing happend and I do believe it because they are both responsible people. So do I talk with him about it or am I just living in the 50's? Not sure on this one.

I don't think you're living in the 50's at all. But "responsible" people who aren't supposed to be fooling around in your house (with your rules) don't sleep in the same bed.

450slcguy · #54 03-23-2009, 02:56 PM

What's the big deal? So what they crashed out together, get over it. I think your being way to prudish and overreacting.

Personally, I'd just be happy he didn't bring home a "guy friend"

. Then you''d really have something to worry about.

JollyRoger · #55 03-23-2009, 03:00 PM

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Originally Posted by Howitzer

I'm going to take a wild stab and guess that you have a daughter. I do and one half of me says its OK and the daddy side of me says NFW...ever...married or not. I'm going to have a tough time dealing with the teen dating issue.

I have not been blessed with daughters, but if my daughter was to come home and do the same thing, excuse herself and then retire to the bedroom with her beau, the King is going to get down right medieval.

aklim · #56 03-23-2009, 03:43 PM

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Originally Posted by Dee8go

That's when the "Y" is open for dining . . . .

With women, isn't the "Y" always open for dining? I would assume so since the reverse would be true for men.

With women, sometimes the guy won't want to dine there since at certain times of the month, the meat tends to be a little rare.

C280 Sport · #57 03-27-2009, 06:20 PM

Well come to find out for the past two nights he has stayed over her house. I was going to have a talk with him before but it slipped my mind. Her parents went away for the week to Northern Ca. and my son went to class Wed morning and she lives about 5 miles away from school. I get a call on my phone saying he got out of class. Got a 100% on his history test and he was staying at her place for a couple nights. I had no issue. But today around 12ish when he comes home I look out the window and see him and her getting out of the 280. They both come inside and we where all talking and this is where they slipped up. Just when I was about to ask where did HE sleep. They both slipped up and said."Ya we slept in bed all night watching MTV and VH1. I asked what time did you get up? She goes "About 11ish. Well 9ish but WE laid in bed watching friday morning TV. Now at this point I am thinking what to do and I looked at my wife and just said nothing. They are both are out doing God knows what right now.But I have talked it over with my wife and both have realized that he is not a kid anymore and he can be trusted and I am now convinced that nothing is going on between the two of them. So I guess I have to stop living in the 50's now.