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suginami · #17 02-10-2014, 04:31 PM

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Originally Posted by TwitchKitty

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Look her in the eye and tell her how being with her makes you feel and tell her that could spend a lot more time with her. Tell her you want to be more than just friends. Tell her that you have a crush on her and want to get to know her better.

Even if you already know, ask her if she is married or engaged or anything like that. Ask her what she is doing for the rest of your life.

If you feel like a fool later, that's good too. Justify it by telling yourself that she needed an ego boost.

If you regret what you didn't do then you are just a big pussy. Everyone does things that they wish they could take back later, part of living. Join the living, get busy and do something but be nice.

I was going to give my $0.02, and then I read the above post by TwitchKitty.

He nailed it.

Tell her how your feel. Be direct with her.

I think with just the few casual dates you'd had with her that "going in for a kiss" would be a terrible mistake.

aklim · #18 02-10-2014, 04:38 PM

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Originally Posted by suginami

Tell her how your feel. Be direct with her.

I think with just the few casual dates you'd had with her that "going in for a kiss" would be a terrible mistake.

If she runs, you don't waste any more date money and time. If she holds still, feel her up and down and get a motel or the backseat of a car if you can't wait that long.

As I said, "He who hesitates, masturbates". Sooner you know, the sooner you can make a decision.

Also to note, if things go well, a bird in the bush is worth 2 in the hand."

suginami · #19 02-10-2014, 04:48 PM

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Originally Posted by aklim

If she runs, you don't waste any more date money and time. If she holds still, feel her up and down and get a motel or the backseat of a car if you can't wait that long.

As I said, "He who hesitates, masturbates". Sooner you know, the sooner you can make a decision.

Also to note, if things go well, a bird in the bush is worth 2 in the hand."

"he who waits, masturbates"?

That's a new one.

I don't agree with it, though. Every man masturbates, whether or not he's married, or single, or whatever.

As Seinfeld said in the Master of my Domain episode, "We have to do it. It's part of our lifestyle. It's like shaving."

aklim · #20 02-10-2014, 04:55 PM

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Originally Posted by suginami

"he who waits, masturbates"?

That's a new one.

I don't agree with it, though. Every man masturbates, whether or not he's married, or single, or whatever.

As Seinfeld said in the Master of my Domain episode, "We have to do it. It's part of our lifestyle. It's like shaving."

If you hesitate you will more likely have to settle for masturbation. If you don't, you might have the option.

Stoney · #21 02-10-2014, 05:08 PM

My wife is 10 years older than I am. She is the strongest and best person I have ever known and we have had 30 wonderful years together.

I never let age become a part of the equation, neither should you.

Follow your heart not your groin.

aklim · #22 02-10-2014, 05:14 PM

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Originally Posted by Stoney

My wife is 10 years older than I am. She is the strongest and best person I have ever known and we have had 30 wonderful years together.

I never let age become a part of the equation, neither should you.

Follow your heart not your groin.

It is the groin that points you in the direction where the heart might or might not be added

suginami · #23 02-10-2014, 05:27 PM

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Originally Posted by aklim

It is the groin that points you in the direction where the heart might or might not be added

I think this point is irrelevant in this case as the poster says he's had a crush on her.

TwitchKitty · #24 02-10-2014, 07:02 PM

Don't jump right into pawing at her. This isn't a drunk college party.

If she is OK with you touching her then up the touching. Maybe kiss her hand or touch her cheek. If she is still OK then see if you can get your arms around her. You can even tell her it is coming if you need to. Maybe say something about dancing with her. At some point you need to just stand toe to toe and face to face and put your arms around her.

Some women will test you by deflecting your advances but if you smile and hang with her you will find out if she wants you. Some people say that a woman decides in the first 3-5 minutes after you meet if you will ever have a chance of sleeping with her. Sex is touching on many levels and touching will tell you if you have a chance.

aklim · #25 02-10-2014, 07:08 PM

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Originally Posted by TwitchKitty

Some women will test you by deflecting your advances but if you smile and hang with her you will find out if she wants you.

Why would anyone be so desperate to make something work with a woman who wants to play testing games?

TwitchKitty · #26 02-10-2014, 07:13 PM

I think it is just a natural reaction for some people. Kinda like, if you can't handle this you don't even want to see what is coming next.

Asking for numbers and goodnight kisses are Hollywood teenage crap. Don't wait, just do it. When it is your turn, take it. Missed opportunities don't make for fond memories. They make big pussies.

kerry · #27 02-10-2014, 07:18 PM

I'm surprised no one has mentioned being the beneficiary of her retirement benefits.

TwitchKitty · #28 02-10-2014, 07:20 PM

He's not asking gigolo level questions, give him time, a little time.

On the question of age, if you are not taking really good care of yourself you might be a little old for her.

spdrun · #29 02-10-2014, 07:31 PM

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Originally Posted by kerry

I'm surprised no one has mentioned being the beneficiary of her retirement benefits.

There are easier and more socially acceptable ways to marry for money ... not all rich girls are super attractive.

aklim · #30 02-10-2014, 08:26 PM

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Originally Posted by TwitchKitty

I think it is just a natural reaction for some people. Kinda like, if you can't handle this you don't even want to see what is coming next.

Asking for numbers and goodnight kisses are Hollywood teenage crap. Don't wait, just do it. When it is your turn, take it. Missed opportunities don't make for fond memories. They make big pussies.

My natural reaction would be to walk. Never been desperate enough to play games with respect to personal relationships. I'll walk and make way for someone more desperate.

Don't know about being a pussy but I'd rather find out sooner than later that this is going nowhere fast.