Anyone else dealing with a breakup? - Page 4 - PeachParts Mercedes-Benz Forum

Monomer · #46 04-19-2009, 10:12 PM

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Originally Posted by Kuan

Dude WTF man. You're young. Once you get p*ssy from some other girl you'll forget about this one in no time.

yup

Finding one around here that's not a psychoHoseBeast can be a problem, esp. one that's a good person (and cute...)

I'm gonna take a few weeks to myself. Lose some weight, work out more. More time for reading books now also (books on money lately.) Maybe I'll even pick up the bass guitar again - my friend has been wanting to jam. (who knows, chicks dig musicians

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sfloriII · #47 04-20-2009, 11:48 AM

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Originally Posted by POS

I'd kick her to the curb and move on; that's the wrong chick.

Dealing with a breakup? Heck no! Married for nine years and still loving it; being single sucked.

Couldn't agree more!! Though I've only been married coming up on two years....

aklim · #48 04-20-2009, 12:23 PM

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Originally Posted by Monomer

Finding one around here that's not a psychoHoseBeast can be a problem, esp. one that's a good person (and cute...)

As I have always been trying to tell people like you, wait for Ms Right but have fun with Ms Wrong while waiting.

dynalow · #49 04-20-2009, 01:15 PM

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Originally Posted by Monomer

yup

Finding one around here that's not a psychoHoseBeast can be a problem, esp. one that's a good person (and cute...)

I'm gonna take a few weeks to myself. Lose some weight, work out more. More time for reading books now also (books on money lately.) Maybe I'll even pick up the bass guitar again - my friend has been wanting to jam. (who knows, chicks dig musicians

)

Forget the girl. Don't look back. Nothing there.

Also, imho.
Forget Detroit. Don't look back. Nothing there.

Monomer · #50 04-20-2009, 05:03 PM

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Originally Posted by dynalow

Forget Detroit. Don't look back. Nothing there.

I happen to love this city (I live in macomb county actually...) As soon as I get my current debt taken care of, I plan on buying houses, as they're really cheap around here. The real-estate market is calling me....

Besides, Detroit's got to much a music heritage to leave.

Got a gig this weekend, and I've been talking to a lot more girls. Aint nothing gonna break my stride.

cmbdiesel · #51 04-20-2009, 05:59 PM

That's the attitude. Bass players get in line behind the guitar players and singers, but that should help weed out the truly psychotic ones

Is it just me, or is there, with girls at bars, a direct correlation between great looking and psycho?

dynalow · #52 04-20-2009, 06:20 PM

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Originally Posted by Monomer

I happen to love this city (I live in macomb county actually...)

Got a gig this weekend, and I've been talking to a lot more girls. Aint nothing gonna break my stride.

The surest and quickest way to forget a woman is to get another one.

Also, I like your attitude.

Jim B. · #53 04-21-2009, 09:15 AM

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Originally Posted by ForcedInduction

She is human, just like the rest of us, and people are naturally not monogamous. What keeps us monogamous is our inhibitions. ..

I disagree. I think that is an over generalization.

My parents met one another on a Sierra Club hike, and got married 3 years later.

At the age 29, each of them had NEVER been with anyone before.

They stayed married for 64 wonderful years.

Every single morning they would hug good morning and kiss in the kitchen.

They were both utterly devoted, and faithful for their entire life, to one another.

At 92 years old, one finally died.

Ten days later so did the other.

Of a broken heart, I have absolutely no doubt.

It would have been my dearest wish to get to end like that. It was my model.

EricSilver · #54 04-21-2009, 12:19 PM

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Originally Posted by Monomer

Finding one around here that's not a psychoHoseBeast can be a problem, esp. one that's a good person (and cute...)

You seem like a good guy but I’m afraid you are suffering from “CBD” – Chronic B*tch Dependency – which you will eventually outgrow.

You feel you need a relationship, but at your age, you don’t. You have a really good thing going and don’t realize it: A woman who disappears for days, every week or so, leaving you free of endless chatter, drama, ball-busting, etc. (I dated a flight attendant for 2 years; it’s a good setup.)

Play your music, talk to other women, and let the flight attendant be your bread and butter sexually. Then, when you are surrounded by female groupies, you won’t put out a desperate vibe, which will make you even more desirable to them.

It’s a shame; women don’t appreciate genuinely caring and romantic men. In fact, they seem to despise them, so keep that in mind the next time you are feeling blue about this girl.

strelnik · #55 04-21-2009, 01:16 PM

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Originally Posted by dynalow

Forget Detroit. Don't look back. Nothing there.

x 144 I know, I have lived here and on 4 other continents. The only place worse that I know of personally is Kosovo

aklim · #56 04-21-2009, 01:18 PM

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Originally Posted by Jim B.

I disagree. I think that is an over generalization.

My parents met one another on a Sierra Club hike, and got married 3 years later.

At the age 29, each of them had NEVER been with anyone before.

They stayed married for 64 wonderful years.

Every single morning they would hug good morning and kiss in the kitchen.

They were both utterly devoted, and faithful for their entire life, to one another.

At 92 years old, one finally died.

Ten days later so did the other.

Of a broken heart, I have absolutely no doubt.

It would have been my dearest wish to get to end like that. It was my model.

How does that prove that monogamy is not a conditioned thing?

Jim B. · #57 04-21-2009, 03:52 PM

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Originally Posted by aklim

How does that prove that monogamy is not a conditioned thing?

The remark was made in resposne to one which said that people are NOT naturallly monogamous.

My experience was
that as a practical experience, they were.

Do you think another way of living is better?

If so - please share your reasons why, if you have any.

aklim · #58 04-21-2009, 04:17 PM

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Originally Posted by Jim B.

My experience was that as a practical experience, they were.

Do you think another way of living is better?

If so - please share your reasons why, if you have any.

So you are saying they were not influenced by societal conditioning and that they were born to be monogamous?

Yes and no. Depends on the person/persons concerned. I have known people to be in a polyamorous relationship and all have been happy. I have know people who are swingers who cannot wrap their minds around a poly relationship. I have known "vanilla" people who cannot even stand their spouses looking at porn. Note, this was years ago for a research project in school so things might have changed since then.

Does steak or lobster taste better?

Monomer · #59 04-21-2009, 05:21 PM

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Originally Posted by EricSilver

It’s a shame; women don’t appreciate genuinely caring and romantic men. In fact, they seem to despise them, so keep that in mind the next time you are feeling blue about this girl.

realized that soon after the whole "can we just be friends" deal. Only thing I feel is numb. After over two years, I think I should feel more - but I just don't care anymore.

She's the type that'll never know what she wants. Some poor sap (NOT me) will ask her to marry him. She'll realize that's not what she wanted and will move onto husband two, three, four.....(she'll collect a lot of **** in the process, thats for sure.) But she'll never be happy.

I don't need that. I don't deserve that.

It felt GOOD telling her where the door was and show herself out. Nothing like the feeling of not being walked on anymore.

aklim · #60 04-21-2009, 05:26 PM

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Originally Posted by Monomer

realized that soon after the whole "can we just be friends" deal. Only thing I feel is numb. After over two years, I think I should feel more - but I just don't care anymore.

She's the type that'll never know what she wants.

"Can we be friends" simply translated: I don't want to be the cause of this breakup so we will use this friendship to transition out of the relationship and in the meantime, I don't have to look as guilty in the eyes of others.

If you knew that, why did you stick so long with her?