Ok. What is this "Friends with benefits" stuff mean? - PeachParts Mercedes-Benz Forum

C280 Sport · #1 01-02-2009, 07:09 PM

So here I am sick as dog tonight and my daughter and her friends come home ad she is crying in tears because her boyfriend broke up with her.

(Thank God I never liked him). So of course me,my wife and her friends have to listen to the whole damn thing. All the crying and the whole 9 yards. So she tells us the whole thing and I understand all of it untill she comes to the part where her mother asks her "Are you still friends?". She says not now becasue he wants to be "Friends with benefits" What the hell does this mean. For some reason no one tonight have given me an answer. I have an idea I think of what it is. Hopefully I am wrong.

mwood · #2 01-02-2009, 07:15 PM

It means they aren't "boyfriend/girlfriend" anymore but will still have sex with no strings attached. Good for the guy, not so much for your daughter.

tankdriver · #3 01-02-2009, 07:18 PM

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sex with no strings attached. Good for the guy, not so much for your daughter.

^This.

C280 Sport · #4 01-02-2009, 07:19 PM

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Originally Posted by mwood

It means they aren't "boyfriend/girlfriend" anymore but will still have sex with no strings attached. Good for the guy, not so much for your daughter.

Ohlord I had a feeling it was something like that. What is wrong with kids these days?

tankdriver · #5 01-02-2009, 07:22 PM

Here in OH, teenage girls take topless pictures with their cell phones and send them to classmates.

Kids are definitely not like they used to be.

C280 Sport · #6 01-02-2009, 07:26 PM

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Here in OH, teenage girls take topless pictures with their cell phones and send them to classmates.

Kids are definitely not like they used to be.

Oh my God. Dont tell me that. Well I hope I dont run into that problem. Yes you are right about that. Not like it use to be. What went wrong? I was not perfect as a child but some of this stuff its crazy.

cmac2012 · #7 01-02-2009, 10:51 PM

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Here in OH, teenage girls take topless pictures with their cell phones and send them to classmates.

Kids are definitely not like they used to be.

One of my clients has a 16 year old son and he claims that it's not uncommon for girls to compete with each other on how many blow jobs they can give. I remember a couple of girls back in the 70s who had a competition for most bedded scores so maybe things haven't changed that much but it does seem like things are different these days.

C280 Sport · #8 01-02-2009, 10:56 PM

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One of my clients has a 16 year old son and he claims that it's not uncommon for girls to compete with each other on how many blow jobs they can give. I remember a couple of girls back in the 70s who had a competition for most bedded scores so maybe things haven't changed that much but it does seem like things are different these days.

Oh my goodness. What is wrong with people. Competing for oral sex? And then they wonder why girls call each other sluts and whores. They do it to themselfs. They ruin their own reputaion at school.

kerry · #9 01-02-2009, 07:37 PM

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Good for the guy, not so much for your daughter.

Why aren't the benefits and drawbacks mutual?

MTUpower · #10 01-02-2009, 08:04 PM

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Why aren't the benefits and drawbacks mutual?

cause it aint the 60's anymore

kerry · #11 01-02-2009, 08:09 PM

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cause it aint the 60's anymore

It ain't the 50's either so someone's going to have to elaborate on the unequal benefits.

MTI · #12 01-02-2009, 08:32 PM

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It ain't the 50's either so someone's going to have to elaborate on the unequal benefits.

Well gawsh golly, don't we all know that women don't enjoy meaningless sex . . . otherwise they'd be . . .

tankdriver · #13 01-02-2009, 08:34 PM

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It ain't the 50's either so someone's going to have to elaborate on the unequal benefits.

Men are more likely to just want to keep their wicks wet without all that pesky relationship stuff. And are more likely to enjoy dipping their wicks in a variety of waxes.

Hatterasguy · #14 01-02-2009, 09:52 PM

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It ain't the 50's either so someone's going to have to elaborate on the unequal benefits.

Well I know of some women who just want to get off to, these days its not always the guy who is the pusher behind such relationships.

OMEGAMAN · #15 01-03-2009, 08:36 AM

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It ain't the 50's either so someone's going to have to elaborate on the unequal benefits.

I think it's because of the emotional attachment women often have for sex partners. This poor girl might think if she sleeps with him he might want to date full time.