Ok. What is this "Friends with benefits" stuff mean? - PeachParts Mercedes-Benz Forum

kerry · #1 01-02-2009, 07:37 PM

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Originally Posted by mwood

Good for the guy, not so much for your daughter.

Why aren't the benefits and drawbacks mutual?

MTUpower · #2 01-02-2009, 08:04 PM

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Originally Posted by kerry

Why aren't the benefits and drawbacks mutual?

cause it aint the 60's anymore

kerry · #3 01-02-2009, 08:09 PM

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Originally Posted by MTUpower

cause it aint the 60's anymore

It ain't the 50's either so someone's going to have to elaborate on the unequal benefits.

MTI · #4 01-02-2009, 08:32 PM

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Originally Posted by kerry

It ain't the 50's either so someone's going to have to elaborate on the unequal benefits.

Well gawsh golly, don't we all know that women don't enjoy meaningless sex . . . otherwise they'd be . . .

tankdriver · #5 01-02-2009, 08:34 PM

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Originally Posted by kerry

It ain't the 50's either so someone's going to have to elaborate on the unequal benefits.

Men are more likely to just want to keep their wicks wet without all that pesky relationship stuff. And are more likely to enjoy dipping their wicks in a variety of waxes.

C280 Sport · #6 01-02-2009, 09:03 PM

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Originally Posted by tankdriver

Men are more likely to just want to keep their wicks wet without all that pesky relationship stuff. And are more likely to enjoy dipping their wicks in a variety of waxes.

The more I look around the more I belive that.

Hatterasguy · #7 01-02-2009, 09:52 PM

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Originally Posted by kerry

It ain't the 50's either so someone's going to have to elaborate on the unequal benefits.

Well I know of some women who just want to get off to, these days its not always the guy who is the pusher behind such relationships.

C280 Sport · #8 01-02-2009, 10:39 PM

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Originally Posted by Hatterasguy

Well I know of some women who just want to get off to, these days its not always the guy who is the pusher behind such relationships.

That is true. Its unfortuante that all you hear about in relationships is that its always the guys faul. Its people in general

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OMEGAMAN · #9 01-03-2009, 08:36 AM

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Originally Posted by kerry

It ain't the 50's either so someone's going to have to elaborate on the unequal benefits.

I think it's because of the emotional attachment women often have for sex partners. This poor girl might think if she sleeps with him he might want to date full time.

Botnst · #10 01-03-2009, 08:55 AM

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Originally Posted by OMEGAMAN

I think it's because of the emotional attachment women often have for sex partners. This poor girl might think if she sleeps with him he might want to date full time.

Wut, you don't mean to imply that men and women view coitus differently? How sexist!

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strelnik · #11 01-02-2009, 09:15 PM

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Originally Posted by kerry

Why aren't the benefits and drawbacks mutual?

Hey go look at Craig's List in a place like Ann Arbor, MI where Univ of Mich main campus is. about 30 grand a year to go there. Men and women all want dates/sex with NSA. They're not talking "the big ear in the sky," it means "no strings attached."

Besides, when you have benefits you typically work stuff out in advance. And it IS for older people than teenagers. I had a friend like that for two years when I was 47. I wanted to marry her, but she was obsessed with her business. She became very wealthy, then lost it all in the tech bubble of 2000-2001, now she runs a feral cat shelter.

Go figure.

Yeah I know, but no matter what you say, I'm not going to the cat shelter to see if I can get a little pussy for myself...
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aklim · #12 01-03-2009, 12:26 AM

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Originally Posted by kerry

Why aren't the benefits and drawbacks mutual?

Because some of us cling to some notion that it is good for the guy to get laid but if it is a girl, life ends.

The Clk Man · #13 01-03-2009, 12:30 AM

I have a wife of 27 years, who is a Friend with benefits, Does that Count?

aklim · #14 01-03-2009, 12:31 AM

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Originally Posted by The Clk Man

I have a wife of 27 years, who is a Friend with benefits, Does that Count?

Did you skip the dating part and live separate lives except for the times you have sex?

The Clk Man · #15 01-03-2009, 12:36 AM

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Originally Posted by aklim

Did you skip the dating part and live separate lives except for the times you have sex?

Nope, I am with my wife 24 hours a day. She is the Best, even after 27 years. And BTW she is only 43 years old. Do the math. Sometimes you get the right one the first time.