Ok. What is this "Friends with benefits" stuff mean? - Page 3 - PeachParts Mercedes-Benz Forum

aklim · #31 01-03-2009, 12:26 AM

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Originally Posted by kerry

Why aren't the benefits and drawbacks mutual?

Because some of us cling to some notion that it is good for the guy to get laid but if it is a girl, life ends.

aklim · #32 01-03-2009, 12:29 AM

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Originally Posted by Hatterasguy

Its a fantastic situation for the guy where you can be **** buddies with a girl and not have to do the dating thing.

Don't forget that the girl gets benefits too so it isn't simply a "One Way Street".

The Clk Man · #33 01-03-2009, 12:30 AM

I have a wife of 27 years, who is a Friend with benefits, Does that Count?

aklim · #34 01-03-2009, 12:31 AM

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Originally Posted by The Clk Man

I have a wife of 27 years, who is a Friend with benefits, Does that Count?

Did you skip the dating part and live separate lives except for the times you have sex?

The Clk Man · #35 01-03-2009, 12:36 AM

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Originally Posted by aklim

Did you skip the dating part and live separate lives except for the times you have sex?

Nope, I am with my wife 24 hours a day. She is the Best, even after 27 years. And BTW she is only 43 years old. Do the math. Sometimes you get the right one the first time.

aklim · #36 01-03-2009, 12:44 AM

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Originally Posted by The Clk Man

Nope, I am with my wife 24 hours a day. She is the Best, even after 27 years.

And BTW she is only 43 years old. Do the math. Sometimes you get the right one the first time.

While my wife is my BFF and 2nd oldest friend, I am not with her 24 hrs a day. Our creditors tell me we have to work and I can't stand her profession.

So she was 16 when you met her? My wife has tended to patients in the OB ward who are younger.

mwood · #37 01-03-2009, 01:54 AM

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Originally Posted by kerry

Why aren't the benefits and drawbacks mutual?

Because the guy want's it and the girl doesn't.

She says not now becasue he wants to be "Friends with benefits"

MS Fowler · #38 01-03-2009, 06:01 AM

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Originally Posted by Cliff_W140

It means it's time for you to put the fear of God into this and every other boy your daughter brings home until she's out of your household.

A friend of mine has a 8 year old daughter ( going on 22) and he is preparing for when he allows her to date...in 20 years, as he now says.
He has prepared "The speech" for any suitors who come calling. " I have 20 wooded acres and a backhoe...."
Al Bundy from Married....With Children had a classic line for any boy who might hurt Kelly, " Your spleen, on a stick" I always thought that captured the proper sentiment.

OMEGAMAN · #39 01-03-2009, 08:34 AM

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Originally Posted by ForcedInduction

There is an old saying that every man knows and every dad doesn't want to know....

"Your little princess is my little wh0re."

I think you should delete that post right now! And no I'm not joking.

OMEGAMAN · #40 01-03-2009, 08:36 AM

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Originally Posted by kerry

It ain't the 50's either so someone's going to have to elaborate on the unequal benefits.

I think it's because of the emotional attachment women often have for sex partners. This poor girl might think if she sleeps with him he might want to date full time.

Kuan · #41 01-03-2009, 08:36 AM

Your daughter needs to be self confident enough to say no. Period. No "benefits," never. Friends, maybe.

Guys love to prey on insecure little girls, and the more a girl lets a guy take advantage of her, whether it's just waffling on a date or treating her roughly at a party, the more it will happen.

This guy obviously has no clue and granted, he's a kid, and he's growing up. This is part of testing the waters. He hears crap bantered around among his friends and just lets loose this whole friends with benefits garbage as he's breaking up with her. He's so immature that even if he had benefits he would have no clue how to keep his mouth shut or what to do with it.

He's not the one. Not right now. If your daughter says yes to benefits, then he'll grow up thinking he can manipulate women like you tinker with cars. If she says no, that gives him a chance to step back and realize what an idiot he is and learn to respect her as a person.

#42 01-03-2009, 08:39 AM

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Originally Posted by OMEGAMAN

I think you should delete that post right now! And no I'm not joking.

Its reality and reality hurts.

I'll refer you to my friend Choppers as to the solution.

Medmech · #43 01-03-2009, 08:52 AM

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Originally Posted by OMEGAMAN

I think you should delete that post right now! And no I'm not joking.

It's people like him that drive normal people away from the forums, he has no kids, no love or anything else to identify with normal people...totally selfish. They post with what they think is complete anonymity and don't have to face the real real repercussions of their inane remarks. If he made that comment to almost anyone's face he'd have to go to the dentist to get their shoes untied.

Botnst · #44 01-03-2009, 08:55 AM

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Originally Posted by OMEGAMAN

I think it's because of the emotional attachment women often have for sex partners. This poor girl might think if she sleeps with him he might want to date full time.

Wut, you don't mean to imply that men and women view coitus differently? How sexist!

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Botnst · #45 01-03-2009, 08:57 AM

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Originally Posted by Howitzer

It's people like him that drive normal people away from the forums, he has no kids, no love or anything else to identify with normal people...totally selfish.

That narcissism is proof that one maybe grownup but not an adult.