God dammit.

Since the summer, I've been going to burger king every other weekend for lunch (yeah, i know)... It's right across from work, and it's cheap (2 burgers, small drink, 3.17)

I met the cashier, got to know her and whatnot, finally got the balls to ask her out a month or so ago. I've been NICE. Went to a movie, had dinner... bla bla bla. I got to know her parents (who love me), and she got to know my mom (who thinks higly of Kiersten). We were having a nice conversation, she was accually in texas this last weekend, visiting her brother. All of a sudden, I get a "i need to say something"

GDMMIT, I know what that means, I REALLY do...

She's going into the Navy, and is going to be taking tests and stuff. She says she doesnt have the time to go out with me, or anybody else. She's like to be my friend still, but not so close anymore.

WTF????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????? ????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????/

Am I retarded, or did I just get dumped because shes too busy?

What the hell did I do wrong?

This happened at about 9:30, I just got home a few min ago (1:45). I've been crusing around town with no particular destination, wound up spending some time with a friend who I saw pulled over by the 5-0 for illegal exhaust...


So, I'm sitting here, killing a bottle of Captain morgain, wondering what the **** did I do wrong...?

mabey I should grow up, or something, and realize I'm still young? And that relationships at this poing dont mean anything anyways???

why ****ing me?
~Nate

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2012 Escape, 'hunter" (5 sp 4cyl)

Well if she's busy, she's busy! Honestly, don't take it to heart. Women do some stupid stuff, but this time it sounds genuine - joining the Navy isn't an easy task, she'll have to leave everything and everyone she knows behind, so splitting up with you now will make it a lot easier for her later on.

yeah, but that wont be untill at least she's done with school

I know it's noble, but it still sucks for me


I did say good luck in the Navy though, before we ended the convention

I've been happy with only doing stuff on the weekends, which owuldnt have too change untill she's in the Navy though

I need another jacket, it's getting cold... or mabey that's my mood, just freeking cold.

Nice guys finish LAST, why couldnt I be a Jock?
~Nate

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2012 Escape, 'hunter" (5 sp 4cyl)

Dude, you live in the frozen tundra! OF COURSE ITS COLD.

18 to twenty something chicks are just that way. Move on.

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1982 380SL
1978 450 SEL 6.9 euro restoration at 63% and climbing
1987 300 D
2005 CDI European Delivery
2006 CDI Handed down to daughter
2007 GL CDI. Wifes

You are out of your mind. Stay single. Bang anything that walks. Settle down later in life.

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'08 Chevy Tahoe
'93 Ducati 900 SS
'79 Kawasaki KZ 650
'86 Kawasaki KX 250
'88 Kawasaki KDX200
'71 Hodaka Ace 100
'72 Triumph T100R

Nate, don't drink like that man. It doesn't do you any good.

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Agreed!

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ive said that but, nice guys do end up winning in the long run because the jock gets pinned in the piss test for steroids while you go to his gas station to fill your SLR with premium unleaded

sure my parents made me break up with my last gf.. a frign awesome red head and such.. we still talk so we are still friends and when i move out.. shebang... but w/e

move on , deal with it.. go adjust your valves. life goes on..

LOL

Nate, you got "The friendship lecture"

Probably every guy here got it at one time or another - or many times.

Just move on.

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1995 E 420, 170k "The Red Plum" (sold)

2015 BMW 535i xdrive awd Stage 1 DINAN, 6k, <----364 hp

1967 Mercury Cougar, 49k

2013 Jaguar XF, 20k <----340 hp Supercharged, All Wheel Drive (sold)

yeah... I dont get it though, WHY????????? is it so she doesnt feel guilty for leaving me? Mabey somehow to think she's comferting me???

Just checked the t-stat, it's like 68 in the house..... Guess Im going cold blooded


It wasnt a lecture either, it was like a few sentances... I got jipped
~Nate

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2012 Escape, 'hunter" (5 sp 4cyl)

does friends include friends with benifits??? or is that wishell thinking?>



~Nate

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1999 Plymouth Neon Expresso. 2.4 swap, 10.5 to 1 comp, big cams. Autocross time attack vehicle!
2012 Escape, 'hunter" (5 sp 4cyl)

Dear Nate,

She is not the only fish in the sea.

Sincerely yours,

Jacques Costeau

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1991 560 SEC AMG, 199k <---- 300 hp 10:1 ECE euro HV ...

1995 E 420, 170k "The Red Plum" (sold)

2015 BMW 535i xdrive awd Stage 1 DINAN, 6k, <----364 hp

1967 Mercury Cougar, 49k

2013 Jaguar XF, 20k <----340 hp Supercharged, All Wheel Drive (sold)

Because they don't have the balls (obviously a figure of speech) to say, "Ok, I guess we're done here." Sad, but usually true.

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I usually don't reply to these , but you seem sincere enough.

That would be wishful thinking, yes.

As to 'why' it happened, forget about it. You will go mad trying to decipher why. Just accept it. It happens to everyone. If men every truly understood women, the universe would likely end, or at the very least Elvis would return from the dead for a last concert with Jimi Henrix on guitar.

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2007 E550 4Matic - 61,000 Km - Iridium Silver, black leather, Sport package, Premium 2 package
2007 GL450 4Matic - 62,000 Km - Obsidian Black Metallic, black leather, all options
1998 E430 - sold
1989 300E - 333,000 Km - sold
1977 280E - sold
1971 250 - retired

"And a frign hat. They gave me a hat at the annual benefits meeting. I said. how does this benefit me. I dont have anything from the company.. So they gave me a hat." - TheDon

What he said. One of the greatest lessons you can learn in life is that "why" doesn't matter in situations like this. "Is" trumps "why", and "why" won't change "is". Forget it and move on to more important things, like things you can actually change.